we as a society need to start talking about abusive friendships, bc those exist and seem to be really common
and most people in them dont know how do deal w the abuse bc its normally emotional abuse which.gets delegitimized, and its a platonic relationship and not a romo or sexual one, so it gets delegitimized for that too
Please, world, can we have this. Because so many people I know have or are in abusive friendships and it’s fucking awful as hell.
And we have no word for “breaking up with a person with whom you were in a non-romantic relationship,” no way of saying “that’s my ex” that doesn’t carry all these connotations you don’t want, when really what you’re saying is “they hurt me as badly as they could, and I cannot have them back, I cannot, I cannot, please stop telling me to be the bigger person, please stop telling me to open the door.”
all boobs are good boobs
all stomachs are good stomachs
all thighs are good thighs
all bodies are good bodies
yes yours, too, and don’t you forget it
He’s back! Welcome back, calming cat. You are always welcome here.
Everyone should know of calming cat.
this is the thing that you have to tag because you’ll have to wait 8264589672 years to find it again
“It is a diagnosis,
not a definition.
It does not know you,
nor does it own you.” — Michelle K., Overcoming My Diagnoses. (via michellekpoems)
is today your first day of school? tomorrow? or maybe it’s your 50th day of school?
youre looking great
you are going to rock this
i believe in you
youre gonna knock em out of the park, champ
“Nobody can save you but yourself — and you’re worth saving. It’s a war not easily won but if anything is worth winning — this is it.” — Charles Bukowski (via feellng)
“The only person standing in your way, is you.” — Black Swan (2010)
“Incredible change happens in your life when you decide to take control of what you do have power over instead of craving control over what you don’t.” — Steve Maraboli, Life, the Truth, and Being Free (via psych-facts)
“I surrender to the ocean, to the moon, to the stars, to the sun, to the earth. Bestowed by beauty all around me; I am humble. I respect life and promise to honour its gift. I will nourish my body and too my soul with the nutrients of love. I am where I am meant to be. I live in today, right now. I am present.” —